1 min read Teaching Self-Control Instead of Policing Screen Time
The goal isn’t to control screens forever—it’s to raise kids who can regulate themselves. This blog focuses on long-term digital responsibility.
Screens won’t disappear when children grow up. Teaching self-control matters more than enforcing strict limits.
Parents who involve kids in setting rules see better outcomes:
• Ask children how screens make them feel
• Discuss when screen use becomes unhealthy
• Agree on consequences together
When kids help create the rules, they’re more likely to respect them.
Modeling matters too. Children learn digital behavior by watching adults. Screen-free family time sends a stronger message than lectures.
The most successful screen rules don’t feel like rules at all—they feel like shared values.
Ruchira Darda
I am Ruchira Darda, a relationship coach, parenting expert, author, and entrepreneur with over 16 years of experience. Based in Mumbai, I work extensively in the areas of mindful living and emotional wellness. I am a TEDx speaker and focus on personality identification to help individuals and families build stronger, healthier relationships. I also lead and actively support initiatives such as the Lokmat MahaMarathon.
